Lisa Wingate
Rating: ⭐⭐⭐ ½
Genre: Historical Fiction
As usual, I’m late to the party! This book has been sitting on my shelf for a long time, asking me to pick it up and read it because it is one of the highest-rated stories on my historical shelf. Before We Were Yours is a historical fiction with dual timelines that focuses on family, loss, grief, and secrets.
The past story is about Rill Foss and her siblings, who live a humble but loving life on a riverboat with their parents. Their life is shattered when authorities take them away, separating them from the world they know. They are placed into the Tennessee Children’s Home Society, where they face neglect, cruelty, and the looming threat of being permanently separated through illegal adoptions.
Rill, as the eldest, tries to protect her siblings, and in the process, her journey becomes one of survival, resilience, and quiet resistance in the face of overwhelming injustice. In the present day, we follow Avery Stafford. She is a successful woman from a politically prominent family; a chance encounter changes things for her and opens family secrets.
The book keeps alternating between the two timelines. What worked the best for me was the past timeline, as it carried more depth and emotional weight. I just feel that part of the book had more punch, and it is the actual historical part of the story. In my opinion, the novel would have been stronger if it were entirely focused on the past timeline, perhaps using the present only for the prologue and epilogue.
The writing style is easy and accessible. It flows easily—making the book more engaging and easier to read. The prose is not overcomplicated, which is something I really appreciate, and it works well in favor of the story.
However, the pacing is not the strongest thing in this book. I felt in the middle there was a bit of dragging, and the story would’ve benefited more if the fillers there were removed. You will feel that when you reach that part because it will make you notice that the narrative is losing its momentum.
While the book aims to be emotionally powerful, there were moments where it felt overly dramatic, which I don’t think was the author's intention. I felt those moments were trying hard to get a reaction from the reader. I still think it is a solid read, but I can’t hide my disappointment because I was expecting this to be an all-time favorite. I guess I was just expecting a lot from it.
Family
Loss
Isolation
Grief
Secrets






